![]() ![]() Why? Because those around my age (other Saturns in Leo in the lower digits) set off my natal squares to Saturn. I tend to be attracted to people who are within a year older of me, or 8 years older than me. In synastry I think it can be worked through a bit more but generally I'd want trines or sextiles instead of other aspects, those tend to make the people involved more likely to view rtheir connection as something long term, the squares ect can make the relaionship seem like a trap. Saturn in composites if it aspects badly from what I have seen is a real dampner, and either seems to prevent a relaionship from fully developing, signifies a barier why the relationship can't or won't develop or causes it to end, I think it depends on the planet it aspects to, to which effect it has. Lastly, I feel Saturn in composite charts is more important than in synastry, especially as the relationship progresses. An aspect your chart makes to another's Saturn will be found with many people in the same age group. I think Saturn is important in synastry, but since it does move rather slowly, aspects with the personal planets and Ascendant seem more relevant. Saturn squaring Jupiter would be easier to deal with. Saturn squaring the Nodes, or even conjunct one, often makes life miserable for the Node person. In my experience, it also depends a lot on *what* Saturn is aspecting. I felt extremely "chained" to him, and I think it's because we also had a great deal of South Node conjunctions. On the other hand, I felt VERY tied down to the following ex-boyfriend, where the only Saturn aspects were as follows: It was very easy to break up with him, and Saturn never showed its wet blanket effect for us. Saturn trine Moon (a double whammy both our Saturns trine each other's moon) ![]() I never felt the Saturn influence with one ex-boyfriend, despite having the following Synastry: But there you go: at least one example of heavy Saturn aspects in a successful relationship.Īlso, I think there are other things in a chart that can indicate that heavy/glued-down feeling that Saturn is often blamed for. Even in fighting, they never lose that underlying love, and the arguments often leave them loving each other even more than before. They do have their share of arguments (Saturn square Mercury), but underneath it all is a great sense of love between them. They have been together almost 30 years, with no signs of ever divorcing-they're quite inseperable. Likewise, my father's Saturn makes the following aspects: My mom's Saturn has the following aspects: I'll take my parents' synastry as an example. And I do believe that even difficult ones can be overcome-and in fact, may make a relationship stronger, provided both people are able to conquer the challenges they face. I believe some Saturn aspects (even hard ones) are quite necessary for a long-lasting relationship. So with synastry that is otherwise mostly compatible, that Saturn glue can be a good thing-whereas with incompatible people, it can be extremely dangerous. even if the relationship is harming one or both of the partners. The more Saturn aspects (especially ones with tight orbs) between two charts, the more those people will be compelled to stay together. In my experience, the role of Saturn really depends on the rest of the synastry. Then coming back with blank papers again. I think perhaps it could be because we tended to go into conversations and emotions that was serious and depressing as well lol and then we dissapeared into somewhere without knowing why or when. And don't get me started on it within synastry, the description of it being the 'wet blanket' is so true.įrom my experiences with saturn in relationships,it has often made a very distant attitude between us that was createdĪfter the "good times" with good aspects to the sun mon and venus. Saturn in my experience feels like a extra (invisible)parent waiting for me to do something wrong, so the hypothetical finger can shake at me in shame. If you had hard aspects, did you have any other aspects that helped smooth things over?įrom: the city so nice they named it twice!Īre you asking if other good aspects cancel out the bad Saturn in synastry? I don't think they do, there's always going to be some bad with the good, and no matter how many great aspects there may be, those heavy Saturn aspects will always pop up eventually. What Saturn cross aspects have you personally dealt with in your relationships? Good ones, bad ones, confusing ones, whatever. ![]() I think there's been a thread like this, but I can't find it. Topic: Your experiences with Saturn in synastry Profile | register | preferences | faq | search Your experiences with Saturn in synastry - Lindaland Welcome, Knowflakes, to Lindaland! () ![]()
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